How do you know if they still love you? In the first few months of courtship, or early years of marriage, the chance of seeing signs to show the love is dying is likely to be zilch. Because the relationship is still in infancy stage and your partner is learning more about you, the love will still be very strong. However, if your partner’s behaviour changes towards you, like them not seeing to your needs in bed, or the gifts stop coming, or, those three all important words…”I Love You” are hardly said, then it is time to worry, that is, if these were usual traits in your partner.
You will find in a lot of relationships if a partner fails to keep up with the romancing thing, the other thinks the love has gone. Most couples do have a fairytale romance at the start, but because this is the real world, happy endings are not always the case.
As time goes on in a relationship the partner may find it hard to keep up doing the things that he or she may have done in the early days, this could be down to money, or down to stress, but it does not mean they do not love you. You cannot expect your partner to keep giving so give them a break instead of a hard time. Just because they make paying the mortgage a priority over buying you a gold ring, flowers, or chocolates, it does not signify the spark has gone from the relationship.
How To Tell Your Girlfriend Loves You – The Signs
If a girl is madly in love with you, her actions will be in tune with it. Her feelings towards you lies in her actions. The emotions of love and interest level go hand in hand. When the interest level drops, it is hard to maintain love. It is normal for these levels to fluctuate. Sometimes it’ is high, sometimes it is medium, but if it drops to an all time low the relationship is in trouble. Some girls are unique to their own way of flirting and showing their feelings, however, the vast majority act the same around a boy they fancy the pants off, or love.
Signs below a girl has the hots for you.
1. Girls in a relationship tend to have a crush on their phone as well as their boyfriend because they are never off it, ringing their fella up every five minutes to find out how he is, or what he is doing. If the calls stop coming regular it can indicate a low level of interest on her part. If this worries you test her. Refrain from phoning her for at least 7 days. See how many times she calls you. If you are flat out answering her calls, this shows a lot of interest on her part. If the calls are less than 5 times a week this shows a very low level of interest. Anywhere in between is a sign of medium interest level.
2. Girls are givers. They like to give kisses, cuddles, food, time, massages, even sex. They have a habit of constantly kissing, feeling and hugging, but should this stop then red alert. If the kisses seldom come without a prompt from you, then interest level is dangerously low.
3. 90% of girls treat their boyfriend like babies, constantly cuddling or cajoling them. This might answer why your girl has a pet name for you, e.g. snuggles, sweet pea, sugar plum, honey bunch, wait for it…blossom pie. Not christened yet? This could be a sign of low interest.
4. Girls fight with their boyfriend for the simplest of reasons. If you’re not having a regular scrap it could indicate a low interest level on her part.
5. If you love someone it is natural to feel possessive and protective. If your girlfriend’s intention is to be with you forever, then she sure as hell is not going to share you with anyone else. If there is no hint of jealousy shown when you talk to another female, then once again another danger sign she’s losing interest.
6. A girl will reserve all her attention for the guy she loves, but should she flirt with another man using meaningful moves then its time to worry.
How can you tell if your boyfriend loves you, and you alone? The Signs
1. He can’t take his eyes off you. Your every move is monitored. You will catch him admiringly and longingly looking into your eyes, face and body.
2. The gifts still keep coming. Love notes left in your handbag or under your pillow are signs he’s still interested.
3. He’ll constantly talk about you to friends and family.
4. He’ll want to be around you at every convenient moment.
5. He will fight to the death if he has too. He will defend you to the point of physically scrapping to defend your reputation if a bad word is said about you.
6. If he uses words like how lucky he is to have a found a girl like you.
7. Compliments keep coming, complimenting you on the way you look, and for the things you say, as well as encourage you to take your talents further.
8. He listens: He’ll give you a shoulder to cry on instead of nipping to the pub for a pint till you pull yourself together.
9. He takes you serious and follows your advice/suggestions and implements them.
10. He is polite to your family and friends and respects them.
If you are fortunate to have a boyfriend with these traits, then do the right thing and reciprocate!